Phillip and Darlena call their story The Unperfect Marriage. They set out to create the perfect relationship to escape their extremely dysfunctional childhoods. Phillip Fantasized and expected married life to be like a Disney fairytale. Darlena expected marriage to offer all the luxuries of Country Club living. Both sabotaged their marriage with their unspoken fantasies of perfection. Twenty-six years later, after many transforming experiences, their marriage is healed, whole and good enough. The 7PM process is what Phillip and Darlena used to heal their marriage. Practicing the seven practices will heal your marriage and liberate you from the fantasy of perfection.